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Valley EFAP Library

 

The Valley EFAP maintains an extensive library of audio and visual material which may be borrowed by individuals and employers.  Major topic areas include:

  • Parenting               • Relationships                 • Bereavement
  • Substance Abuse    • Mental Health Issues      • Stress

Material Available:

Videos

Parenting

     Number     Title

      0101A       A New Mothers Feelings

      0101B       Step-parenting

      0101C       Single Parenting

      0101D       Sibling Rivalry

      0105         Winning at Parenting

      0106         Teen Years - War and Peace

      0107         Why Won't My Child Pay Attention?

      0108         Winning at Teaching - Without Beating Your Kids

      0109         When Mom and Dad Break Up

      0110         The Working Mom's Survival Guide

      0111         Latch Key Families

      0112         How to Survive and Maybe Thrive in a Step-family

      0113         It's Just Attention Disorder.  A Video Guide for Kids

      0114         1-2-3 Magic

      0114A       1-2-3-Magic

      0115         The Way It Is

      0116         The Modern Man's Guide to Fatherhood

      0117         Finding Quality Childcare:  What Every Parent Needs to Know

      0118         Momnipotent - Songs for Weary Parents

      0119         Winning at Teaching - Without Beating Your Kids

      0120         Building Self-Esteem In Your Daughter

      0121         Building Self-Esteem In Your Child

      0122         Healing Wounded Hearts

      0123         Welcome to Parenting - The First Six Years

      0124         Surviving Your Adolescents - How To Manage and Let Go Of Your 13 - 18 Year Olds

      0125         Say No To Drugs

      0126         Children - The Experts on Divorce

      0127         Mom, Can I have That?

      0128         Stop Struggling With Your Child.  Discover the four-step Stop Struggling process to minimize             family conflict and maximize a child's self-esteem.

      0129         Parenting With Humor (Is It Possible?)

      0130         Helping Kids Cope With Stress

      0131         Understanding the Defiant child

      0132         Managing the Defiant Child

      0133         Surviving Your Adolescents

      0134         Skills for Single Parents

      0135         Inside the Teenage Brain

      0136         Teen Species

Health/Mental Health

     Number     Title

      0201         Time Out - The Truth About HIV, AIDS and you

      0202         Compulsive Eating - When Does It Become An Illness

      0203         Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) in Adults

      0204         Stress Reduction Program - A Video House Call

      0205         Stress Management - Control Stress and Enjoy Your Life

      0206         Not Another Stress Workshop!

      0207         Neurotica - Middle Age Spread and other Life Crises

      0208         Where Angels Dare

      0209         PMS - It's Not In Your Head

      0210         Unsung Lullabies

      0211         Depression:  Beyond the Darkness

      0212         How To Live Between Office Visits

      0213         Coping with Depression - Self Help Strategies

      0214A       Volume 1:  Love and Learning to Love Yourself - Chicken Soup for the Soul Live! Series

      0214B       Volume 2:  Parenting and Learning and Teaching

      0214C       Volume 3: Living Your Dreams and Overcoming Obstacles  

      0214D       Volume 4: Coping with Death and Dying and Eclectic Wisdom

      0215         Male/Female Communication and Is It Hot In Here - Menopause Issues

      0216         Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder in Adults - ABC News Special

      0217         Letting Go of Stress

      0218         Mastering The Shiftwork Lifestyle

      0219         Vista - Insight on HIV Disease

      0220         The Joy of Stress - How To Prevent Hardening of the Attitude

      0221         Humour Your Stress:  Just for the Fun of It

      0222         Medication for ADD - Attention Deficit Disorder

      0223         Understanding Depression

      0224         When Panic Strikes

      0225         Labour of Love

      0226         The Myths of Mental Illness

      0227A       ALL ABOUT ATTENTION DEFICIT DISORDER

      0227B       ALL ABOUT ATTENTION DEFICIT DISORDER

      0228         Peer Pressure - Teen Health Video Series

      0229         Teen Sexuality - Teen Health Video Series

      0230         Don't Sweat It!

      0231         Chicken Soup for The Soul Live!

      0232         Depression:  Helping Families Cope

      0233         Depression:  Helping Families Cope

      0234          Preventing and Managing Stress

      0235         Recovering Bodies

Substance Abuse

     Number     Title

      0301         Back to Reality

      0302         Enabling/Masking Reality

      0303         Al-Anon Speaks for Itself

      0304         Children of Denial

      0305         Alateen Tells It Like It Is

      0306         Working It Out - A Family Discusses Drinking

      0307         Breaking the Addiction Cycle

      0308         Relationships in Recovery

      0309         Spirituality and The Steps

      0310         Women and Substance Use:  Sharing Our Experiences

      0311         Hazelden.  The Hazelden Experience

      0312         Intervention:  The Responsibility of Friends

      0313         Hope for Families

      0314         AA & The Alcoholic

      0315         Chalk Talks

      0316         A Deadly Silence

      0317         Special Occasions Guide To Responsible Alcohol Service

 

Relationships

     Number     Title

      0401A       Gary Smalley Series -  Tape 1. It is recommended that you watch these tapes in order

      0401B       Gary Smalley Series -  Tape 2

      0401C       Gary Smalley Series - Tape 3

      0401D       Gary Smalley Series - Tape 4

      0401E       Gary Smalley Series - Tape 5

      0401F       Gary Smalley Series - Tape 6

      0401G       Gary Smalley Series - Tape 7

      0401H       Gary Smalley Series - Tape 8

      0401I        Gary Smalley Series - Tape 9

      0401J        Gary Smalley Series - Tape 10

      0401K       Gary Smalley Series - Tape 11

      0401L       Gary Smalley Series - Tape 12

      0401M      Gary Smalley Series - Tape 13

      0401N       Gary Smalley Series - Tape 14

      0401O       Gary Smalley Series - Tape 15

      0401P       Gary Smalley Series - Tape 16

      0401Q      Gary Smalley Series - Tape 17

      0401R       Gary Smalley Series - Tape 18

      0402         The Art of Resolving Conflicts in the Workplace

      0403A       Men Are From Mars - Women are from Venus.  It is recommended that you watch the first tape first and then the others can be viewed in any order

      0403B       Men are from Mars - Women are from Venus

      0403C       Men are from Mars - Women are from Venus

      0403D       Men are from Mars - Women are from Venus

      0403E       Men are from Mars - Women are from Venus

      0403F       Men are from Mars - Women are from Venus

      0403G       Men are from Mars - Women are from Venus

      0403H       Men are from Mars - Women are from Venus

      0403I        Men are from Mars - Women are from Venus

      0403J        Men are from Mars - Women are from Venus

      0403K       Men are from Mars - Women are from Venus

      0403L       Men are from Mars - Women are from Venus

      0403M      Men are from Mars - Women are from Venus

      0403N       Men are from Mars - Women are from Venus

      0404         The National Sex Communication Quiz

      0405A       Brain Sex - As seen on the Learning Channel

      0405B       Brain Sex - As seen on the Learning Channel

      0405C       Brain Sex - As Seen On The Learning Channel

      0406         Why Are You So Angry?

      0407         Controlling Anger - AUDIO TAPE

      0408         Is Love All That Matters

      0409         Finding Love - 3 Audio Tapes

      0410         Psycho-Geometrics.  The Science of Understanding People and the Art of Influencing                       Them

      0411         Baby Blues

      0412A       Multiple Choices Series - Spanning the Generations - A Lively Exchange of Ideas

      0412B       Multiple Choices Series - Spanning the Generations - A Lively Exchange of Ideas

      0412C       Multiple Choices Series - Spanning the Generations - A Lively Exchange of Ideas

      0412D       Multiple Choices Series - Spanning the Generations - A Lively Exchange of Ideas

      0412E       Multiple Choices Series - Spanning the Generations - A Lively Exchange of Ideas

      0413         After the Affair.  Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When A Partner Has Been Unfaithful.

      0414         Separate Ways

      0415         One Divided By Two

      0416A       Caring and Sharing

      0416B       Caring and Sharing

      0417         Let's Put The Sex Back Into Love

      0418         How To Deal With Difficult People - audio cassettes

      0419         Mars & Venus Starting Over

      0420         Mars & Venus On A Date

      0421         The Stupid Things Men do to Mess up Their Lives

      0422         How to Manage Your Boss

      0423         Men are from Mars Women are from Venus, But we have to live on Earth

 

Grief

     Number     Title

      0210.        UNSUNG LULLABIES

      0501         Living With Dying

      0502         LIVING - WHEN A LOVED ONE HAS DIED

      0503         WHEN BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE

      0504         SURVIVING DEATH

      0505         ADVICE FOR FRIENDS OF THE BEREAVED

      0506         How to Survive the Loss of a Love

 

Women's Issues

     Number     Title

      0110.        THE WORKING MOM'S SURVIVAL GUIDE

      0209.        PMS - IT'S NOT IN YOUR HEAD

      0210..       UNSUNG LULLABIES

      0215.        MALE/FEMALE COMMUNICATION

      0310.        WOMEN AND SUBSTANCE USE:  SHARING OUR EXPERIENCES

      0601         MENOPAUSE:  TAKING CHARGE

      0602         SELF-ESTEEM FOR WOMEN- 6 audio tapes

      0603         Biting the Apple - Women Getting Wise About Love - audio cassettes

      0604         A Touch Of Prevention

      0605         Is it Hot In Here

   

Training

     Number     Title

      0701         Violence In The Workplace

      0702         Harassment:  Keeping It Out of The Workplace

      0703         Be Prepared to Speak

      0704         Supports Program

 

Books

  Number     Title

      001        What Helped Me When My Loved One Died

      002        Emergency Services Stress - Jeff Mitchell, Ph. D., Grady Bray, Ph. D.

      004        Workers Who Drink- Carl J. Schramm, Wallace Mandell, Janet Archer

      005        The Real Police Force- Joseph F. Deitrich

      006        Victims No Longer- Mike Lew

      009        Finance and Accounting for Non-financial Managers - William G. Droms

      010        The Self-Help Source Book Finds & Forming Mutual Aid Self-Help Groups

      011        Business Writing Quick and Easy- Laura Brill

      012        Secrets of Self-Esteem

      013        Effective Meetings- Clyde W. Burleson

      014        Professional Presence- Susan Bixler

      015        Organized to be the Best!- Susan Silver

      016        Men Speak Out In The Heat Of Men's Recovery

      019        How to Keep Your Man Monogamous - by Alexandra Penney

      020        When Pregnancy Fails - by Susan Borg and Judith Lasker

      021         The Psychology of Death, Dying and Bereavement- by Richard Shulz

      023        The 36-Hour Day-by Nancy L. Mace M. A., Peter V. Rabins MD. MP. H.

      025        Living and Working with Schizophrenia

      026        No Repeats - by Wendy Reynolds, Danielle Michel, Janice McAlpine, Joanne McAlpin

      029        Feel The Fear and Do It Anyway- by Susan Jeffers Ph.D.

      030        Talking About Divorce and Separation - Earl A Grollman

      031        Men Who Can't Be Faithful- by Carol Botwin

      032        The Anxiety Disease - by Dr. David V. Sheehan, MD.

      033        Your Vitality Quotient- by Richard Earle Ph.D., David Imrie, MD., Rick Archbold

      035        My House is Different- by Kathy Di-Giovanni

      036        Self Discovery in Recovery- byAbraham J. Twerski, MD.

      037        Escape From Intimacy- by Anne Wilson Schaef

      039        Men and Grief - by Carol Staudacher

      041        Absent Fathers, Lost Sons -by Guy Corneau

      043        Stress Management- By Edward A Charlesworth, Ph.D., Ronald G. Nathan Ph.D.

      044        P.M.S. Pre-menstrual Syndrome-by Ronald V. Norris MD. With Colleen Sullivan

      045        Sick and Tired of Being Sick and Tired- by PhilipHansen

      046        The Panic Attack Recovery Book-by Shirley Swede and Seymour Sheppard Jaffe, MD.

      047        Me, Myself and You- by Vincent P. Collins

      048        The Courage To Heal

      051        Understanding and Managing Stress- by John D. Adams

      052        First Step - Al Anon- Al Anon Family Groups

      055        Outgrowing the Pain - by Eliana M.G.I., Ph.D.

      057        Driven to Distraction - by Edward M. Hallowell MD. & John J. Ratey MD.

      058        Iron John- Robert Bly

      060        How To Cope With Depression-  J. Raymond DePaulo Jr. MD., Keith Russell Ablow MD.

      061        Why Didn't I Say That - by David H. Weiss

      064        Divorced Fathers- by Thomas Oakland PH.D.

      065        Family Ties That Bind- by Dr. Ronald W. Richardson

      067        Now about Sex- by John Baudhiun

      068        What's "Drunk" Mama?- Al anon Family Groups

      069        You Just Don't Understand

      070        Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus - John Gray Ph.D.

      071        Feeling Good, The New Mood Therapy- by David D. Burns, MD.

      072        The Good Divorce - Keeping family together when your marriage comes apart.

      073        Ten Days to Self-Esteem-

      074        Mars and Venus in the Bedroom.  A Guide to Lasting Romance and Passion.

      075        "Where Did I Come From?"  The facts of life without any nonsense.

      076        "What's Happening To Me?"  A guide to puberty.

      077        What Your Mother Couldn't Tell You & Your Father Didn't Know, by John Gray, Ph.D.

      078        Divorce Busting.  A step-by-step approach to making your marriage loving again!

      079        The New Male Sexuality.  The Truth about Men, Sex and Pleasure.  by B. Zilbergeld,Ph.D.

      080        Woman's Experience of Sex. Facts & Feelings of Female Sexuality at Every Stage of Life

      082        Grief's Courageous Journey.  A Workbook. - by Sandi Caplan & Gordon Lang

      083        1-2-3 Magic.  Training your children to do what you want!

      084        Robert Gerberg's Job Changing System - World's Fastest Way to Get a Better Job

      086        A Parents Guide - Kids, Alcohol and Drugs- By Ruth Maxwell

      087        What Color is Your Parachute?  A Practical Manual for Job-Hunters and Career-Changers           

      088       "The Answer is NO".  Saying it and sticking to it.-by Cynthia Whitham M.S.W.

      089        Win the Whining War and Other Skirmishes.  A family peace plan.

      090        SOS!  Help for Parents. Practical Guide for Handling Common Everyday Behavior Problems

      091        How To Make Love All The Time, by Barbara DeAngelis, PhD.

      092        Long-Distance Parenting, A Guide for Divorced Parents - Mariam Galper Cohen

      093        What Your Mother Couldn't Tell You & Your Father Didn't Know

      094        Healing The Wounds, Overcoming the Trauma of Layoffs & Revitalizing Downsized
                   Organizations - by David M. Noer

      095        The Anxiety & Phobia Workbook- by Edmund J. Borne Ph. D.

      096        Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay.  A step-by-step guide to help you decide whether to stay
                   in or get out of your relationship.- by Mira Kirshenbaum

      097        Get Rid of Him.  If you're feeling trapped or dominated, if he's draining your energy, if he's more trouble
    than he's worth ...  The book that tells you how, when and why to do it!

      098        Alcoholics Anonymous

      099        AIDS - Proofing Your Kids.  A Step-by-Step Guide

      100        Hidden Keys of a Loving Lasting Marriage by Gary Smalley

      101        Learning to Master Your Chronic Pain by Robert N. Jamison

      102        The Relaxation & Stress Reduction Workbook- 4th edition

      103        Surviving Your Adolescents - How To Manage and Let Go Of Your 13-18 Year Olds

      104        You Can Control Your Feelings!  24 Guides to Emotional Well-Being

      105        Think Straight - Feel Great!  21 Guides to Emotional Self-Control

      106        The Courage to Heal Workbook.  For Women and Men Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse. avis

      107        After the Affair.  Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful

      108        How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk- by Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish

      109        Head over Heart in Love.  25 Guides to Rational Passion

      110        Now That You Know; What Every Parent Should Know About Homosexuality

      111        The Depression Workbook; A Guide for Living with Depression and         Manic Depression

      112        Siblings Without Rivalry.  How To Help Your Children Live Together So You Can Live Too

      113        When Parents Die.  A Guide for Adults

      114        Sex for Dummies - Dr. Ruth K. Westheimer

      115        Growing up Again

      116        Infidelity- by Don-David Lusterman, Ph.D.

      117        Opening the Door (A Treatment Model for Therapy With Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse)

      118        The 60 Second Shrink- by Arnold A Lazarus Ph.D., Clifford N. Lazarus Ph. D.

      119        Surviving Your Adolescents - Thomas W. Phelan, Ph.D.

      120        How to Raise Happy Kids - Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

      121        Heal Yourself - Judith Lin Eftekhar

      122        Backlash - Susan Faludi

      123        Revolution From Within - Gloria Steinem

      124        Take Off 10 Years In 10 Weeks - Judith Wills

      125        Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know  - Barbara DeAngelis, PH.D.

      126        Loving Him Without Losing Him - Carolyn Bushong

      127        The Joy Of Feeling Good - William A. Miller

      128        Your Erroneous Zones - Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

      129        My Kids Are My Best Teachers - Bill Butterworth

      130        The Emotionally Abused Woman - Beverly Engel M.F.C.C.

      131        The Verbally Abusive Relationship - Patricia Evans

      132        Slay Your Own Dragon - Nancy Good

      133        Supercouple Syndrome - Wayne M. Sotile, PH.D. and Mary O. Sotile, M.A.

      134        The Mother Dance - Harriet Lerner, PH.D.

      135        Winter Blues - Norman E. Rosenthal, MD

      136        Letting Go of Anger - Ron Potter -Efron, M.S.W. & Pat Potter-Efron, M.S.

      137        Who’s In Charge - Maggie Mamen, PhD

      138        When Parents Die -Edward Myers

      139        The Intimate Enemy - How To Fight Fair in Love and Marriage

      140        Getting The Love You Want - A Guide for Couples - by Harville Hendrix

      141        Joint Custody With A Jerk - Raising a Child with an Uncooperative Ex

      142        Don't Say Yes When You Want to Say No

      143        The What's Happening To My Body? Book For Girls

      144        The What's Happening To My Body? Book For Boys

      145        Stepmothers

      146          Kids Are Worth It!

      147        Because Life Goes On

      148       Asperger's Syndrome – A Guide for Parents and Professionals

      149       How could you do That? The Abdication of Character, Courage and Conscience –

      150       Emotional Intelligence – Why It Can Matter More Than IQ

      151       The Crowded Bed – An effective framework for doing couple therapy

      152       Discipline – 101 Alternatives to Nagging, Yelling and Spanking

      153       Parenting with Wit and Wisdom in Times of Chaos and Loss

      154       Are You The One For Me?

      155       The Relaxation & Stress Reduction Workbook – Fifth Edition

      156       Here I Am. Finding Oneself Through Healing and Letting Go

      157       Getting Through To Difficult Kids & Parents

      158       Solve Your Child's Sleep Problems

      159       Lesbian Couples

      160       From Panic to Power

      161       Parenting Through Crisis

      162       When Dinosaurs Die

      163       The Anxiety & Phobia Workbook

      164       Beyond Anxiety & Phobia

      165       The Sleep Book For Tired Parents

      166       The Language of Letting Go

      167       Dinosaurs Divorce

 

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